Last night Luke and I attended the wedding of one of the young ladies who grew up with Nick and Stephen. Paige was a few years older, but her younger brother, Jason, went to preschool with Nick, and they all practiced karate together.
Paige is the first of our kids to get married. It’s weird seeing the young adults beginning their adult lives, and there were a few times last night when despite all the happiness, I thought of Nick and all he was missing.
Stephen couldn’t go, but at least it was because he was at school. He was doing something productive. I miss my boys in different ways.
Instead of giving favors, Paige and Brandon wanted to make a donation to Nick’s Fight to be Healed in memory of Nick. Leave it to this amazing couple to think of my boy. We were honored and touched.
It was extra special, since their gesture started on the first day of September being Childhood Cancer Awareness month. As we remember our children who are no longer with us and continually fight alongside the braves ones battling, it’s important to acknowledge this generation of compassionate philanthropists, who take any opportunity to make a difference.
Paige and Brandon are just beginning their lives together. Yet they took the time to embrace what was a devastating part of all our lives, and they infused it with love and hope. They and all the young adults who celebrated with them are our future. They are the ones who will continue to give back. We set the example, but they took action.
Nick would have been dancing up a storm at the wedding last night with Stephen right there with him. Cancer took that away from us and that is why we all have to take action.
Paige and Brandon, we wish you love, happiness, and good health for you both and your children to come. May you continue to make the world a better place and thank you for thinking of others when it was your special night.