How can a child remain so positive when they are going through a cancer treatment? That was one of the things that amazed me about my son, Nick, when he was so ill. Even when he was so fatigued and couldn’t do anything, he still had a smile on his face. It seemed very important to him that everyone else was comfortable and doing all right.
Emily looks at life with optimism and sees goodness, instead of what may hurt. Knowing that the treatments will make them better can change a bad experience into a good one, but it’s still painful. Our children still cry, and they need to know that it’s all right to show pain, anger, frustration, and confusion. These emotions only cause more disease if they are bottled up.
But when your child smiles at you while in clinic, you can’t help but smile and be amazed at how strong and brave they are.
Emily’s family knows that cancer can take a lot out of a child, it can change their demeanor, and kids need extra amounts of love and understanding when this happens. Being showered with love in these tough times helps immensely. In addition, the generosity of people and groups help the patient and the whole family.
Parents follow their sick child’s lead. Right now Emily is in her maintenance phase. She is still getting medication, but she is on the road to being healed. That is a reason in itself for her to be positive, and when her family sees her smile, I’m sure they smile right back at her and feel blessed.